Can I Tell What a Guy Is Really Thinking Through His Body Language?
So you’re out on a date with a guy who is either a man of few words or is a little inconsistent in what he is saying and you’re confused: what does he really mean when he says he wants to see me again? Is it true or is he feeding me a line? Does he really want to call me? Did he enjoy our date? Or you’re at a bar with friends and see a cute guy that seems to be flirting but you’re not sure and think “Is he really looking at me and does he look interested? You could probably go on and on and analyze the heck out of the situation and come up with no answers. Well we’d like to do what we can to help decode “guy body language” to help relieve some stress. No it’s not completely scientific but a person’s body language can tell a lot about what they aren’t saying or tell if they really do mean what they are saying.
He is actively listening to you. When a guy is making eye contact and displays other obvious facial clues that indicate he is listening, like a nod or a smile, then he is interested in you or at the very least interested in what you are saying.
He respects your personal space but subtly enters it. The key here is subtle. If a guy approaches your little bubble (which we all hold dear) and slowly enters it without completely invading it then he is showing interest in you and is flirting but is respectful. An example of subtle might be asking if he can sit next to you at a bar or offering to pull out your chair as you do sit down.
He ignores his cell phone. Even though this may be an obvious and expected response on a date (and we agree) it means much more if you are just flirting with someone. If a guy’s phone rings or vibrates and he intentionally ignores it while he is starting up a chat with you then this is an obvious sign that he is interested in you more than the unknown caller on the other end of the phone.
He may touch you accidentally or not so accidentally but it will be discreet. Being discreet is a brush of an arm or leg or a brief touch on the back that may appear even unconscious, if you didn’t’ know better 
The eyes have it. The eyes may not be the windows to the soul but they can tell you a lot about a person since most eye movement is not controllable. For example, someone who squints is usually uncomfortable in the conversation, arched eyebrows indicate interest, and when someone is blinking frequently beware of the lies!
What other powerful messages have you noticed about the body language of guys? Please share comments with us so we don’t have to guess as much!
Tags: boy language, dating advice, eye contact, flirting, guys