Is There a Guaranteed Way To Get Asked For a Second Date?
Well, no, there is no guaranteed way, but ladies, there are some techniques you can apply to increase your odds of getting to date #2. First dates are about first impressions, attraction, easy conversation and generally a good time. Also, it is about leaving him wanting more. Sound complicated? It really isn’t, I’m going to keep it simple.
What is sexy on a first date?
- Consider a skirt versus pants – this may sound sexist but you are a girl so embrace your femininity.
- Wear your hair in the way that is the “natural” you – you want him to recognize you on the second date!
- Enjoy a drink with him – not 3 or 4!
- Enjoy your food and dessert if that is part of the date – a guy likes a girl who actually has an appetite and eats!
- Have fun – laugh at his jokes, tell one of your own, smile, remember you are having a good time on a date not enduring a business meeting.
- Say something complementary about his smile, his choice in restaurant or his attire. You get the idea. He’ll appreciate it – just not too personal (no comments about his nice bum!)
- Allow him to kiss you on the cheek at the end of the date.
- Send him a thank you email the next day.
What’s not sexy on a first date?
- Dressing slutty and/or showing too much skin or cleavage.
- Being late – yes, it takes women longer to get ready than men so plan accordingly. This is not cute; it is disrespectful of his time and sends the message that the date isn’t very important to you.
- Answering your cell phone – this should be obvious, but just don’t do it.
- Checking your makeup or lipstick at the table – excuse yourself to the restroom and take care of it there, just don’t take too long.
- Indecisiveness with the menu/ordering and ordering everything prepared “special” – this just screams insecurity and high maintenence.
- Asking what his income is.
- Asking if he wants children.
- Sleeping with him.
Guys, tell us what you think about what is sexy and what isn’t on a first date and what influences you to ask for that second date! Girls, what has worked for you and led to a second date with that great guy? Please post your comments!
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