Can I Tell What a Girl Is Really Thinking Through Her Body Language?
So you’re out on a date with a girl and you just can’t figure out if she is really into you or is just pretending to have a good time but can’t wait for the date to end. Or, you want to approach a girl but you can’t tell based on her body language toward you whether or not she is interested in meeting you. Girls are tricky and can be pretty confusing to many guys when they are trying to decide their next move. Does she want me to walk over to her and ask her to dance? Is she looking at me because she is interested or because I have food in my teeth? Does she really want me to call her? Did she enjoy our date? Again overanalyzing it will probably be crazy-making for you and in the end leave you with no real answers. Just like our blog about decoding guy body language we are here to give you some helpful advice on how to read a girl’s body language.
She is facing you while you both are talking. If a girl is into you she will face you directly while talking but if she is talking to you and her body is facing the other direction then forget about it and move on. If her arms are folded across her chest she is probably not interested and it is best for you to cut the conversation short and try to get to know someone else.
She smiles A LOT! If a girl is smiling throughout your conversation this is a pretty good sign that she likes what you are saying and is interested.
She does the ol’ “hair flip” aka “Charlie’s Angels.” This might seem cheesy but girls do it (mostly because their friends tell them too) because they know that sometimes guys just need a really obvious move that shows a guy that she is into him, so take the cue guys!
She laughs at your jokes even if they aren’t funny.
She actively listens to you. Just like a guy when a girl is making eye contact and displays other obvious facial clues that indicates she is listening, like a nod or a smile, then she is interested in you or at the very least interested in what you are saying.
She ignores her cell phone. If a girl’s phone rings or vibrates and she intentionally ignores it while she is starting a conversation with you then this is an obvious sign that she is interested in you.
And finally, again just like the opposite sex, the eyes have it. The eyes may not be the windows to the soul but they can tell you a lot about a person since most eye movement is not controllable. For example, someone who squints is usually uncomfortable in the conversation, arched eyebrows indicate interest, and when someone is blinking frequently beware of the lies!
What other powerful messages have you noticed about the body language of girls? Please share comments with us so we don’t have to guess as much!
Tags: attraction, body language, dating advice, flirting, signs