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Section IIIb. Relationship Ready?

Rating Scale: Rate each item on a scale from 1 - 4.
1. Strongly Disagree
2. Disagree
3. Agree
4. Strongly Agree


1 2 3 4
I know what I want.
I am either looking for a short-term relationship or I am ready to seek something more long-term.
I know my requirements.
I have a written list of my “deal breakers” for screening potential partners.
I respect my requirements.
I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me.
I am satisfied with my career/work.
My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.
I feel good inside and out.
My physical and/or mental health will not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.
My financial situation is stable.
I have no financial problems that would interfere with having the relationship I want.
My family baggage has been resolved.
My relationships with my children, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the relationship I want.
I can recognize when a date is "just a date."
I don’t expect every date to lead to something more.
I have effective communication skills.
I communicate what I want and need and I don’t make people guess.
I know how to problem solve when disagreements arise.
I deal positively with misunderstandings and disagreements when they occur.
I know when it is "my fault."
I can admit when I’m wrong, acknowledge if someone else is right or agree to disagree.
I don’t "need" a relationship I "want" a relationship.
I do not expect a relationship to meet all my needs and make me happy.

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